New Family Traditions To Start This Year

New Family Traditions To Start This Year

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Growing up, Sunday was God’s Day—but it was our family’s day too. We’d start with church in our Sunday’s best, followed by brunch (usually egg sandwiches) and donuts. If it was raining, we’d watch a movie, play board games, or visit a museum. If it was nice, we’d take a hike, bike ride, or go to the zoo. Rain or shine, Sunday family day was a non-negotiable family tradition—and the highlight of everyone’s week.

There’s something extraordinary about the power of traditions. They don’t just create memories; they weave a sense of belonging, connection, and identity into the fabric of our lives. The word “tradition” might seem daunting—as though it’s something that requires elaborate planning or perfect execution. But with a little forethought, traditions can be beautifully simple—a weekly movie night or a yearly volunteer day.

Traditions help anchor us. As Life Coach Susan Lieberman puts it: “Family traditions counter alienation and confusion. They help us define who we are; they provide something steady, reliable and safe in a confusing world.” For children especially, traditions are a way of demonstrating, “This is how we show up for each other.”

Unlike routines, which aim to simplify life, traditions are intentional moments that add depth and meaning. They ask us to pause, connect, and savor the time we spend together. And they don’t need to be grand gestures—they can start small and grow into something truly special over the years.

Ready to create lasting memories with your loved ones? Here are some ideas to get started.

Daily Traditions: Turning Routines into Meaningful Connection

  • Wake-Up Songs – Playing a cheerful or meaningful song every morning isn’t just a way to wake everyone up—it sets the tone for the whole day. Over time, the song becomes a symbol of your family’s unique rhythm and positivity.
  • The Six-Second Hug Tradition – Research shows hugs of six seconds or more release oxytocin, the “bonding hormone,” reducing stress and fostering connection. Turning a simple hug into a daily ritual at key moments—waking up, returning home, or saying goodnight—creates a grounding tradition that reminds your child of your unwavering love.
  • Daily Storytime or Bedtime Chats – Reading aloud together not only nurtures literacy but also strengthens bonds. Pair it with a consistent tradition, like a bath before bed to unwind and relax and question time after the story—asking what your child is grateful for or what made them smile that day—to end the day with gratitude and connection.
  • Dinner Table Connections – Sharing a meal as a family is a timeless tradition. Enhance it with a game like “Rose, Bud, and Thorn,” where each family member shares a highlight (the rose), something they’re looking forward to (the bud), and a challenge or difficulty (the thorn).
  • Evening Strolls or Sports Play – A quick walk after dinner can evolve into a tradition everyone looks forward to. It’s not just about the physical benefits—but also about creating space for casual conversations and observations. If you don’t have time to do it every night, consider scheduling “Full Moon Walks” to make it special. Shooting a few hoops, playing catch with a baseball, or kicking the soccer ball around can be a fun pre-dinner or post-dinner tradition that encourages physical activity, too.

Weekly Traditions: Building Anticipation and Togetherness

  • Themed Dinners – Spice up the week with themed meals that make mealtime special and highly anticipated all week long. Common themes include: Meatless Monday, Taco Tuesday, World Cuisine Wednesday, Breakfast-for-Dinner Thursdays, Pizza Friday, Slowcooker Saturday, and Italian Sunday Supper.
  • Tech-Free Family Time – “Tech-Free Fridays,” transforms screen-free time into a cherished opportunity for togetherness. Play classic board games like Scrabble or Pictionary, create DIY trivia about your family, or enjoy a backyard scavenger hunt. Pair the fun with a food tradition, like build-your-own pizza night or a DIY sundae bar, to make the experience even more special.
  • One-on-One Parent-Child Dates – Set aside time each week for a parent to have one-on-one time with a child. Whether it’s a trip to the ice cream shop, a walk in the park, or watching a movie together, these moments build stronger individual connections—especially if they’re competing with a sibling for your attention.
  • Family Art Night – Unleash creativity with a weekly family art night. Set up a space with supplies like paints, markers, clay, or craft kits, and let everyone work on their own projects or collaborate on a shared masterpiece. Rotate themes each week, such as “self-portraits,” “seasonal decorations,” or “dream worlds.” This tradition nurtures self-expression, strengthens bonds, and leaves you with tangible keepsakes to cherish.
  • Library or Bookshop Visits – Cultivate a love for reading with a weekly visit to the library or bookshop. Let each family member pick a book to enjoy during the week, making it a tradition that nurtures curiosity and learning.

Occasional Traditions: Creating Lasting Memories Through Special Moments

  • Annual Family Photos – Taking a family photo every year helps you document the passage of time. Whether you choose a professional photographer or a DIY setup, this tradition ensures that you have lasting memories to look back on. You might take them over the holiday season or fresh for the New Year to set a cherished tradition.
  • Lighting the First Fire of Winter – As the weather cools, make lighting the first fire of winter a family tradition. Whether it’s in your fireplace or an outdoor fire pit, gather around the warmth and share stories, hot cocoa, or roasted marshmallows to kick off the season.
  • “Yes Jar” Adventures – Once a month, pick an activity from your family’s “Yes Jar,” where each member contributes fun suggestions for things to do together. The spontaneity of not knowing what you’ll pull out makes each experience exciting and unique.
  • Recreate an Old Family Photo – Recreating a favorite family photo from the past—whether it’s a holiday snapshot or a simple moment captured years ago—can bring joy and laughter. Try to match the clothing, location, and activity for an extra touch of nostalgia.
  • Holiday Crafting – Crafting together for special occasions like Thanksgiving, Christmas, or Easter is a great way to bond and get into the festive spirit. You can make ornaments, table setting decorations, picture scrapbooks, or gifts to exchange, ensuring that your home is filled with family-made treasures.
  • Annual Trip to the Beach or Favorite Spot – Choose a special location, like a beach, a cabin in the woods, or a vacation destination, and make it an annual tradition to visit. The familiar sights, sounds, and activities will create lasting memories and give everyone something to look forward to each year.
  • Birthday Interviews – Conduct a yearly interview for each family member on their birthday, asking about their favorite moments from the past year and their hopes for the future. Cover the same set of topics, like: “What was something that made you happy/sad this past year?” “What was your favorite birthday gift,” and “What are you most looking forward to in the next year?” Over time, you’ll build a collection of these interviews, creating a meaningful reflection of your family’s growth.
  • Valentine’s Fondue Night – Make Valentine’s Day extra special with a fondue dinner at home. Dip bread, fruit, or marshmallows in cheese or chocolate fondue, and use the occasion to exchange heartfelt notes or share what you love about each other.
  • Plant a Spring Garden – Whether you decide to grow vegetables, flowers, or a combination of both, each family member can have a specific role in the process, from planning and planting to watering and harvesting. As the garden flourishes, it becomes a symbol of the family’s collective effort and care. You can celebrate the fruits of your labor by creating a fresh bouquet each week or cooking a meal together using the vegetables you’ve grown. Not only does this tradition foster teamwork, but it also provides a lasting connection to the earth and a tangible reminder of the memories you’ve cultivated along the way.

And if you’re located in New York’s East End, Shine NYC would love to be part of your family tradition. With fun and engaging break camps, classes, and party entertainment, we offer kids opportunities to learn, grow, and create meaningful experiences that will become traditions they cherish.

Lights, Curtain, Action: A Parent’s Guide to Theatre for Kids

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No one forgets their first trip to the theatre — the excitement as the lights dim, the magic of the curtains rising, and the wonder of stories coming to life on stage. For children, experiencing theatre opens doors to imagination, empathy, and confidence-building opportunities that can shape their growth in profound ways.

If you’re a parent of a 4-10 year old, now is the perfect time to introduce your little ones to the joy of live performance. Whether it’s a small community production, a big Broadway show, acting camp, or even a creative theatre-inspired activity at home, theatre offers countless benefits for young minds. Here’s why you should bring your kids into the world of theatre — and how to get started.

Why Introduce Kids to Theatre?

Theatre is more than just entertainment; it’s an opportunity for growth, learning, and emotional development. Here are a few key reasons why theatre is such a valuable experience for children:

  • Encourages Imagination: Watching live performances helps kids visualize stories in unique and engaging ways, fostering creativity and critical thinking.
  • Builds Empathy: Theatre exposes kids to different characters, emotions, and perspectives, teaching them to understand and relate to others.
  • Enhances Focus and Listening Skills: Sitting through a live performance teaches kids to pay attention, follow a storyline, and absorb details.
  • Introduces Culture and Diversity: Plays often highlight diverse themes, settings, and stories, helping kids understand and appreciate other cultures and experiences.
  • Creates Lasting Memories: The magic of theatre—from vibrant costumes to dynamic sets—leaves an impression that stays with children for years to come.

When kids experience the wonder of theatre, it opens their minds to endless possibilities and encourages them to dream, imagine, and explore.

How to Interest Kids in Theatre

Here are some simple and effective ways to introduce theatre into your family’s life:


1. Start with Kid-Friendly Shows: Look for productions designed specifically for young audiences. Shows like The Lion King or Matilda the Musical are engaging, colorful, and perfect for children. Streaming platforms offer filmed versions of musicals and plays, such as Newsies (Disney+) or Matilda (Netflix).

2. Explore Local Productions: Check out community theatres, school plays, or outdoor theatre festivals in your area. Smaller productions are often more affordable and accessible for families.

Families in the Hamptons/East End NY/Long Island can try:
 
Bay Street Theater (Sag Harbor): Offers family-friendly productions, summer camps, and engaging programming for kids. This December, the youth production’s doing Wizard of Oz.
 
Gateway Playhouse (Bellport): Known for high-quality productions, including kid-focused shows and summer theatre camps. In spring, they’ll be performing Frozen: The Musical.
 
Patchogue Theatre for the Performing Arts (Patchogue): A great venue for family-friendly touring productions and live performances. Roald Dahl’s Willy Wonka is coming in January.
 
Southampton Cultural Center (Southampton): Provides children’s drop-in learn-to-act classes and community performances.
 
Guild Hall (East Hampton): Offers family-oriented productions, art programs, and live performances perfect for kids. Every December, they perform The Nutcracker ballet.

3. Read Plays and Theatre-Inspired Books: Introduce your kids to the world of theatre through books and scripts tailored to young readers. Titles like “Drama” by Raina Telgemeier or simple scripts from Drama Notebook can help kids see how stories come to life on stage.

4. Create Theatre at Home: Turn your living room into a stage and encourage your kids to put on their own shows! Start with a favorite book or fairy tale and help them:
– Write a short script.
– Create costumes using dress-up clothes, scarves, and hats.
– Build sets with blankets, pillows, or cardboard boxes.
– Perform for family members, recording it to share with loved ones.

5. Watch Behind-the-Scenes Content: Videos that show how actors rehearse, how sets are built, or how costumes are designed can spark your child’s interest in the creative process. Websites like Broadway.com or PBS Great Performances often feature kid-friendly videos that reveal the artistry behind the stage. Seeing the work that goes into a production can inspire your kids to appreciate the creative process—and maybe even try it themselves!

By making theatre fun, accessible, and hands-on, you can nurture your child’s appreciation for this incredible art form.

The Value of Performing Theatre for Kids

While watching theatre is magical, participating in theatre can be transformative for children. Performing on stage builds confidence, communication skills, and teamwork in a way few other activities can. Whether your child loves to sing, dance, act, or create, theatre offers a space where they can shine.

  • Boosts Confidence: Stepping on stage helps kids overcome shyness and feel proud of their accomplishments.
  • Develops Communication Skills: Theatre teaches kids to project their voices, articulate clearly, and express emotions effectively.
  • Encourages Collaboration: Putting on a play is a team effort. Kids learn to work together, share ideas, and support one another.
  • Fosters Creativity: Performing allows kids to explore characters, stories, and emotions, encouraging them to think outside the box.

If you’re looking for a way to get your child involved in theatre, consider Shine NYC’s Shine-Tacular Production – a first-of-its-kind theatrical experience where kids delve into their characters, find their voice, and grow in confidence. Our young performers have already begun digging into this exciting project, and we hope it will become an annual tradition that celebrates creativity and the magic of storytelling. Contact us for details.

6 Easy Holiday Crafts Kids Can Give as Gifts

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During the holiday season, finding ways to combine creativity with thoughtfulness can be a wonderful lesson for children. Crafting gifts is not just about the final product – it’s about teaching kids the value of time, effort, and the joy of giving something handmade. These simple yet meaningful holiday craft ideas can help kids create unique treasures that loved ones will cherish.

1. Reindeer Pots

Photo from: Roberts Crafts

Supplies:

  • Terra cotta pots (various sizes)
  • Brown and red outdoor acrylic paint
  • Clear acrylic gloss
  • Paintbrush
  • Brown fun foam or chenille pipecleaner stems
  • Googly eyes
  • Large red pom poms
  • Black paint pen or Sharpie
  • Hot glue gun
  • Sponge (for cheeks)

Directions:

  1. Paint the terra cotta pot brown and let it dry completely.
  2. Then coat it with a glossy clear acrylic sealer.
  3. Create antlers using either fun foam (trace and cut hand shapes) or chenille stems (bend and twist into shape).
  4. Attach antlers to the back of the pot using a hot glue gun.
  5. Glue on wiggly eyes and a red pom pom for the reindeer’s face.
  6. Draw a mouth using the black paint pen and sponge on red cheeks.

Wondering what to put inside? You might fill the pot with:

  • Treats such as candy canes, chocolates, or homemade cookies
  • Personalized notes, stationary, candles, and succulent plants
  • Bath bombs, lotions, sleep masks, and spa themed items
  • Holiday-themed ornaments, stickers, and jingle bells

2. Snow Globe Ornaments

Photo from: Me and My Pink Mixer

Supplies:

  • Clear plastic ornaments with removable tops
  • Mini holiday figurines (like snowmen, reindeer, buildings, or trees)
  • Faux snow
  • Hot glue gun or mixed media glue

Directions:

  1. Remove the top of the ornament and add a small amount of faux snow inside.
  2. Hot glue a mini figurine to the inside of the cap.
  3. Carefully place the figurine into the ornament, securing the cap back on.
  4. Tie a ribbon around the top for hanging.
  5. (Optional) Write a short holiday message on the outside using a paint pen.

3. Salt Dough Handprint Ornaments

Photo from: EatWheat.org

Supplies:

  • 2 cups flour
  • 1 cup salt
  • 1 cup water
  • Acrylic paints
  • Ribbon

Directions:

  1. Mix the flour, salt, and water to create dough.
  2. Roll out the dough and press your child’s hand into it to leave an imprint.
  3. Use a cookie cutter or knife to cut around the handprint.
  4. Poke a hole at the top for threading ribbon later.
  5. Bake at 250°F for 2-3 hours until hard. Let cool.
  6. Paint the ornament and decorate as desired.
  7. Thread a ribbon through the hole for hanging.

4. Mason Jar Hot Cocoa Kits

Photo from: EmpressofDirt.net

Supplies:

  • Mason jars
  • Hot cocoa mix
  • Mini marshmallows
  • Chocolate chips or peppermint candies
  • Ribbon and gift tags

Directions:

Step 1: Fill the Jars

  1. In the bottom jar, add hot chocolate powder.
  2. Fill the middle jar with mini marshmallows.
  3. Use the top jar for candy decorations like chocolate balls wrapped in foil.

Step 2: Assemble the Snowman

  1. Use hot glue to stack the three jars together securely.
  2. Attach twig arms (or pretzel sticks) to the middle jar with hot glue.
  3. Create the snowman’s face on the top jar by gluing chocolate chips for eyes and an orange polymer clay “carrot” for the nose. Add small dots of white icing or paint for detail.

Step 3: Add Accessories

  1. Cut red felt to create a scarf and mittens. Attach them to the snowman, securing with glue.
  2. Use embroidery floss to “string” the mittens together if desired.
  3. Place a mini Santa hat on top for a festive finishing touch.
  4. Decorate the scarf and mittens with star sequins or other festive embellishments.

Step 4: Finishing Touches

  1. Allow all glue and decorations to dry completely.
  2. Include a gift tag with instructions for mixing hot chocolate (For example: “Mix 2 tablespoons of hot chocolate powder with 1 cup of hot water or milk. Enjoy!”)

Note: This project is ideal for older children. For an easy alternative, young children can help layer hot cocoa mix, chocolate chips, and mini marshmallows in a mason jar, adding a festive ribbon around the lid to hold a homemade gift tag with cocoa-making instructions and a candy cane for stirring.

5. Painted Wooden Spoons

Photo from: Pinterest

Supplies:

  • Wooden spoons
  • Acrylic paint and brushes
  • Food-safe sealant
  • Ribbon (optional)

Directions:

  1. Paint festive designs (like snowmen, Santa, snowflakes, or stripes) on the handles and spoons.
  2. Let the paint dry, then seal with a food-safe sealant.
  3. Tie a set of spoons together with a ribbon for gifting.

6. Pom Pom Wreaths

Photo from: TheScrapShoppeBlog.com

Supplies:

  • 1-inch pom poms (3 colors)
  • 1/2-inch pom poms (1 color)
  • Ribbon (approximately 2-inch red velvet ribbon)
  • Cardboard (cut into a 10-inch circle)
  • Chalkboard paint or chalkboard vinyl
  • Liquid adhesive (such as Fabri-Tac)
  • Chalk (for seasoning the chalkboard)
  • Scissors (for cutting the ribbon and cardboard)
  • Glue gun (for attaching pom poms, ribbon, and hanger)
  • 4-inch piece of ribbon (for the wreath hanger)
  • Bow (made from the ribbon)
  • Command hook (for hanging)

Directions:

  1. Cut a 10-inch circle from cardboard and apply chalkboard paint or vinyl to the center.
  2. Rub chalk over the surface and erase to “season” it.
  3. Apply liquid adhesive to the cardboard in 3-inch sections and attach large pom poms, overlapping slightly over the chalkboard.
  4. Fill in gaps with small pom poms around the outer and inner edges.
  5. Make a bow with the ribbon and attach it to the bottom of the wreath.
  6. Create a hanger by folding and gluing a 4-inch piece of ribbon to the back.
  7. Write a message on the chalkboard, then hang the wreath using a Command Hook.

Looking for more creative ways to keep kids engaged? Shine NYC in Bridgehampton offers workshops and activities that spark imagination and creativity all year long. Contact us for details.

Why Your Child Should Learn Spanish (And How To Make It Fun)

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Surrealist filmmaker Federico Fellini once said: “A different language is a different vision of life.”

Imagine your child confidently ordering tacos al pastor in Mexico City, singing “adios rockero bebe”, or chatting with pen pals from Spain. Learning a new language is more than just a skill — it’s a gateway to richer experiences, broader perspectives, and lifelong opportunities.

The benefits go far beyond vocabulary and grammar. Research shows that bilingualism benefits include improved memory, multi-tasking, academic performance, and brain elasticity. For kids, it’s also a powerful way to connect with diverse cultures, spark curiosity, and build empathy for others.

With over 500 million speakers worldwide, Spanish is one of the easiest and most useful languages for children to learn. Whether they’re traveling, making new friends, or preparing for future career opportunities, Spanish opens doors to a world of connection, culture, and creativity.

4 Reasons Why Learning Spanish is Great for Kids

1. Spanish is one of the easiest languages for native English speakers to learn.

As a Romance language, Spanish shares a large number of cognates with English — words that have the same origin, like “correcto” (correct), “delicioso” (delicious), and “pizza” (pizza). This makes vocabulary acquisition easier. Additionally, Spanish is largely phonetic, meaning most words are pronounced the way they’re spelled, which simplifies learning pronunciation. While Spanish has different verb tenses and some grammatical exceptions, its structure aligns with English in many ways, making the grammar easier to grasp than other languages.

2. It’s easier to learn a language when they’re young.

Did you know kids are hardwired to pick up languages during their early years? Studies show that children under the age of 10 are at the peak of their ability to learn pronunciation and grammar naturally. Starting early means they’re more likely to develop native-like fluency.

3. It boosts brain development.

Learning a second language isn’t just about memorizing words; it’s a workout for the brain. Numerous studies have linked bilingualism to cognitive flexibility, better problem-solving skills and focus, improved memory and multi-tasking, and even greater creativity. Additionally, bilingualism has been shown to delay cognitive decline and protect against dementia, so think of it as mental gymnastics with lifelong cognitive benefits.

4. It builds cultural awareness.

Spanish isn’t just a language — it’s a gateway to vibrant cultures around the globe. According to researchers, bilingual people are more accepting of diverse perspectives and are better able to form friendships across cultural and social settings, adding to self-confidence and an overall sense of wellbeing. Learning Spanish helps kids appreciate diversity, whether they’re exploring Latin American music, Spanish cuisine, or the works of Pablo Picasso.

5. It sets them up for future success.

Fluency in Spanish is an incredibly marketable skill. Research from the New American Economy indicates that bilingual employees earn, on average, 5-20% more than their monolingual counterparts. Additionally, a study published in The Economist found that bilingualism improves job prospects in fields such as healthcare, business, and international relations. For students, being fluent in Spanish can make college applications stand out, as it demonstrates not only linguistic ability but also cultural competence and global awareness — qualities that are increasingly sought after in a competitive world.

When’s the Best Time to Start?

In most European countries, foreign language is compulsory for children starting at age six. Kids’ brains are like sponges, especially between the ages of two and eight, and they benefit from frequent, high-quality exposure. However, researchers have also found that 11-year-olds can catch up quickly, even with more casual forms of instruction, due to their understanding of language structure and vocabulary.

Fun Ways to Teach Your Child Spanish

Learning Spanish doesn’t have to feel like homework. Here are some creative, enjoyable ways to incorporate the language into your child’s day:

1. Sign up for a class like Shine NYC’s Listillos program.

Our Listillos class (for ages 2-12) is a dynamic, interactive way for kids to dive into Spanish. Through art, games, songs, and stories, children learn the language while exploring the cultures where it’s spoken. It’s a playful, immersive experience that brings Spanish to life.

2. Try language apps like Duolingo.

For older kids, a free and science-backed app like Duolingo makes learning Spanish feel like a game. Your child can complete fun, bite-sized lessons and earn rewards, keeping them motivated and engaged. Plus, it’s something you can do together as a family.

3. Make it part of your daily routine.

Integrate Spanish into everyday moments. Label household objects in Spanish, play Spanish songs during car rides, watch movies like “Coco” in Spanish, or say simple phrases like “buenos días” (good morning) and “por favor” (please). Consistent exposure is considered the most effective way to build fluency and comprehension of a second language over time.

4. Watch shows and read books in Spanish.

Explore kid-friendly Spanish shows like “Dora la Exploradora,” “Pocoyó,” or “La Granja de Zenón” on platforms like Netflix and YouTube. Shows with engaging songs and repetition can help children pick up phrases and vocabulary effortlessly. For storytime, try bilingual books like “La Oruga Muy Hambrienta” (The Very Hungry Caterpillar) by Eric Carle or “Abuela” by Arthur Dorros. Reading together lets kids associate words with pictures and improves comprehension while bonding over stories.

5. Play language games.

Make learning Spanish fun with interactive games. For example:

  • Memory Match: Create cards with Spanish words on one side and matching pictures on the other (e.g., “gato” and a picture of a cat).
  • Scavenger Hunt: Give clues like “Busca algo rojo” (Find something red) or “Encuentra un libro” (Find a book).
  • Simón dice: Use phrases like “Simón dice, toca tu cabeza” (Simon says, touch your head) to practice body parts.


By incorporating games, kids stay engaged and excited about learning new words.

6. Cook a meal together.

Whip up a simple Spanish or Latin American recipe together — like quesadillas or churros — and use the opportunity for hands-on learning with a delicious twist by introducing related words like “leche” (milk) or “azúcar” (sugar) as you cook.

Staying Consistent Without Overloading

The trick to learning Spanish is keeping it consistent but stress-free. Start with small goals, like learning five new words a week or practicing a simple conversation. Celebrate progress and keep the atmosphere positive — it’s about building confidence, not perfection.

Give Your Child the Gift of Language

Teaching your child Spanish is more than just a skill — it’s a gift that opens their mind and enriches their world. Whether it’s through Shine NYC’s Listillos class, fun apps, or simple at-home activities, you’ll be giving them the tools to connect with people, cultures, and opportunities they wouldn’t otherwise have.

Helping Kids Navigate Post-Election Anxiety

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Election seasons often bring strong emotions—and, for kids, witnessing adults debate or seeing polarizing headlines can lead to confusion, fear, or anxiety. Whether they’re overhearing snippets of conversation or the news, children may struggle to understand these complex events.

Here’s how you can help the young people in your life process election-related stress, encourage open-minded conversations, and find constructive ways to engage with democracy.

1. Address Feelings and Talk Openly

Children may feel uncertain or anxious when they sense tension around them, especially about big topics like elections. Encourage them to talk openly about their feelings, whether they’re worried, confused, or just curious.

Ask questions to understand their concerns. You might say, “I noticed you seemed quiet when we talked about the election. Are you feeling worried or curious about something?” Once they’ve had a chance to talk, reassure them that it’s okay to have a range of emotions. You might say, “Big events like elections can feel intense for everyone, even adults.” Validating these feelings can go a long way toward reducing stress and helping them feel secure.

You might even reiterate:

  • “No matter what happens in the election, our family is here for each other, and we’ll make sure you’re safe and supported.”
  • “There are people working hard to make things better for everyone, and you can always come to me with any questions you have.”

Explain that debates and discussions are normal, even when adults feel strongly. You might explain, “Even when we don’t agree, it’s best to talk in a way that’s friendly and understanding.” Or if your child questions something you’ve said, you might encourage reflection by explaining, “I said that because it’s how I feel, but I know other people have different views, and it’s okay to talk about these things calmly.”

Framing discourse and voting as parts of the democratic process can help demystify the situation, making it less intimidating for kids.

2. Teach Empathy and Open-Mindedness

Give your kids tools to interact with peers who may have different perspectives. Model open-mindedness by listening with empathy and respect when someone else is speaking, and encourage your child to listen to do the same. You might remind your child, “It’s good to hear what others think, too—everybody can teach us something new.”

If a child repeats something you’ve said about a candidate or issue, it’s a great opportunity to guide them on thinking critically and speaking thoughtfully. Kids may not fully understand the context behind what they’ve repeated. Gently explain that people have different views on issues and candidates because of their experiences, values, and beliefs. Reinforce that it’s normal and healthy for people to see things differently.

For younger kids, role-playing with toy figurines, puppets, or acting can be a fun way to practice empathy. For instance, pretend two puppets are talking about a school election. One puppet might say, “I think Amy would make the best class president because she’s really kind!” while the other might respond, “I think Ben would be great because he’s good at organizing things.” Then, help your child take the role of a third puppet or toy and ask, “What do you like about each of them?” This can help your child see the positive qualities in both choices and practice listening to different points of view.

Or you might Act out a situation where one puppet says, “I heard my family say that [candidate] is the best, so that’s who I think is best too!” and another puppet responds, “My family supports someone else, so I think they’re best.” Encourage your child to practice responding kindly, like, “We both have reasons for our choices, and that’s okay. We don’t have to think the same to be friends.” This can help kids understand that respecting others’ opinions doesn’t mean they have to agree with them.

3. Encourage Expression and Curiosity

Validate your child speaking up by saying something like, “Thank you for telling me how you feel. It’s okay to feel nervous, excited, or even a little scared. Those are all normal reactions. I understand why you’d feel this way; it’s a lot to think about.”

If they’re curious, visit your local library to explore age-appropriate resources on how the government works and what voting entails. To channel their feelings positively, give kids space to express themselves creatively. Younger children might enjoy drawing or writing about what a future they care about looks like. Older kids could write letters to a local representative or create a “future goals” poster. These activities help kids feel like they have a voice, empowering them within the democratic process.

4. Create a Calm and Balanced Environment

Limit exposure to negative news cycles and political ads, as constant updates can be overwhelming. Instead, curate the information they receive, focusing on positive stories or instances of cooperation in politics. Remind them that while elections are important, it’s also okay to take breaks and focus on other activities that bring joy, like spending time with family or engaging in hobbies.

5. Reinforce Kindness and Patience

Remind kids, “It’s okay to agree to disagree, and kindness can go a long way, even in tough conversations.” Talk about how patience and understanding can help everyone feel more connected, even if they hold different views.

Elections are not only pivotal moments in US history—but important opportunities to foster important skills within our households, helping our children become thoughtful, resilient, and engaged young citizens who are prepared to navigate the complexities of democracy with empathy and confidence.

If you’re in New York’s East End, sign up for Shine classes, workshops, or parties.  We create an inspiring environment where inclusion, cultural diversity, kindness, and creativity is promoted.

October Family Fun: Polish-American Heritage Month on the East End

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Polish-American Heritage Month, celebrated each October, honors the rich contributions of Polish immigrants to American culture. Originally observed in August, it now coincides with the 1608 arrival of the first Polish settlers in Jamestown, Virginia, and commemorates Revolutionary War hero Casimir Pulaski, the “Father of the American Cavalry.”

On Long Island, nearly one in five people claim some Polish ancestry—but whether you have Polish roots or not, celebrating the vibrant traditions with your children enriches understanding and promotes inclusivity.

Read Together: Polish Folk Tales

For a quiet bedtime activity, why not dive into the magical world of Polish folklore? The stories from Poland are brimming with adventure, lessons on kindness, and tales of mythical creatures. Start with The Best of Polish Fairy Tales by Sergiej Nowikow, which features 50 folk stories paired with beautiful illustrations. These tales reflect the vitality of the Polish people and their strong family values. For more fantastical fun, check out The Dragon of Krakow and Other Polish Stories by Richard Monte. With titles like “The King Who Was Eaten by Bees” and “Neptune and the Naughty Fish,” you’re sure to be entertained.

Get Crafty: Polish Folk Art – Wycinanki

If your kids enjoy hands-on activities, introduce them to Wycinanki, the traditional Polish folk art of paper-cut designs. Pronounced “vee-chee-non-kee,” this intricate craft dates back at least 150 years. While the exact origin is unknown, one legend suggests that farmers cut holes in sheepskin window coverings to let light into their homes. These holes eventually evolved into beautiful, decorative patterns.

To get started on your own wycinanki project, gather colored paper, scissors, and glue. Common designs include symmetrical images of peacocks, doves, and flowers, layered to create a stunning final piece.

Encourage your children to explore reflection symmetry, as the beauty of wycinanki lies in its perfect balance and harmony. Crafting these paper-cut designs together is not only a creative way to spend time but also a lesson in patience and precision—skills that kids can carry with them to school.

Bust a Move: Dance and Music

For families who love to move, Polkas for Children by the Polish American All Stars will have everyone up and twirling around the room with a partner. Another classic? Get kids laughing and burning off steam with The Chicken Dance, a festive tune known across both Germany and Poland.

Spend a Day: Visit Polish Town in Riverhead

For a local adventure, head over to Polish Town in Riverhead. Settled by Polish immigrants in the early 1900s, this charming 15-block neighborhood is filled with vibrant touches of Polish heritage.

  • Keep an eye out for the majestic Polish eagle proudly displayed on banners, street signs, flags, and buildings, along with the red and white colors that symbolize Poland.
  • Visit St. Isidore’s Church, the oldest Polish church on Long Island, where on Sundays at 10:30, you’ll catch a traditional Polish-language mass.
  • Afterward, make your way to Birchwood of Polish Town for kid-friendly twists on Polish classics—like Kielbasa Grilled Cheese or a Polish Reuben. And, of course, you can’t leave without trying their delicious pierogis, golomkis, and potato pancakes!
  • To bring a taste of Poland home, duck into the Polka Deli or Euro Deli to stock up on homemade kielbasa or other specialties for your own Polish feast.

Cook and Enjoy: Taste the Flavors of Poland

One of the best ways to connect with another culture is through food, and Polish cuisine is as hearty as it is delicious. Cooking with kids is not only fun but educational.

  • Start with the beloved Polish potato pancake, or placki ziemniaczane. Crispy on the outside and soft on the inside, serve with a side of applesauce or sour cream for dipping fun.
  • If you want to try something more challenging, the classic pierogi is an instant hit. These tender dumplings can be filled with everything from potatoes to fruit, so you can customize to your kids’ palate. (But really, you can’t go wrong with farmer’s cheese!)
  • And for dessert? The simple-yet-scrumptious Polish apple cake, szarlotka, is an easy fall favorite.

Celebrate: Talk About Culture and Community

Whether through storytelling, cooking, crafts, music, or local exploration, celebrating Polish-American Heritage Month with your kids broadens their cultural horizons. By participating in these activities, your children will not only gain a better understanding of Polish traditions but also appreciate the richness of New York’s diverse communities. So why not make October a month of fun, learning, and connection for the whole family?

P.S. If your kids are curious about the world and enjoy hands-on learning, visit Shine Studio’s Globe Trekkers class. This program offers children ages 4–12 the chance to “travel” to a different country each week, exploring its art, music, games, and flavors. It’s a wonderful way to introduce young minds to new traditions, including those from Poland, and help them develop an appreciation for other cultures.

Fun Fall & Halloween Brunch Recipes For Kids

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Fall is the perfect time to gather your good little boys and ghouls in the kitchen to create seasonal treats that capture the flavors of autumn and leave lasting memories of the season. Whether you’re preparing for a Halloween party or just celebrating the crisp days of fall, these brunch recipes delight both kids and adults alike. Plus, the recipes are easy enough for your mummy’s little helpers to join in—making it a fun weekend activity.

Pumpkin Cheesecake French Toast

Bring the cozy flavors of fall to your brunch table with a twist on classic French toast. Pumpkin cheesecake French toast is sure to become a new family favorite.

Start by whisking together 3 large eggs, ½ cup milk, ½ cup pumpkin puree, 1 tsp vanilla extract, amd 1 tsp pumpkin spice. Dip 8 slices of thick brioche bread into the mixture, then cook them in a heated, skillet with 1 tbsp butter about 2-3 minutes per sideor until golden brown.

To take it up a notch, prepare a cheesecake filling with 4 oz softened cream cheese, 2 tbsp powdered sugar, and ½ tsp of ground cinnamon. Sandwich the filling between two slices of French toast, drizzle with maple syrup, and add whipped cream or a sprinkle of powdered sugar. It’s like having dessert for breakfast, and your kids will love layering the ingredients!

Harvest Cinnamon Apple Waffles

Waffles are always a hit, but adding fall flavors like cinnamon apples takes them to the next level. Start by preparing your favorite box of waffle batter—or, better yet, make it from scratch with 1.5 cups whole wheat flour, 2 tsp baking powder, ½ tsp salt, 1 tsp cinnamon, 1.5 cups milk (or buttermilk), ¼ cup vegetable oil, 1 tsp vanilla extract, and 2 large eggs.

While the waffles are cooking, sauté 2 medium apples (peeled, cored, and sliced) in 2 tbsp butter, adding ½ tsp cinnamon and 2 tbsp brown sugar until soft and caramelized.

Once the waffles are ready, top them with the warm cinnamon apples and ¼ cup of chopped pecans for crunch. Don’t forget a generous drizzle of maple syrup.

These waffles make for a cozy fall brunch and are perfect for involving kids in the cooking process—from mixing the batter to decorating the waffles with toppings. For added intrigue, you might also consider adding spooky sprinkles to your shopping list.

Monster Bagels

Start by gathering your ingredients for this easy, interactive dish:

  • 4 mini bagels (or 2 regular bagels cut in half)
  • 4 tablespoons of cream cheese or mashed avocado (enough to spread on each bagel)
  • 4 slices of turkey or ham
  • 2 slices of cheddar or American cheese
  • 8 pitted black olives or 4 cherry tomatoes (for monster eyes)
  • Toothpicks (optional—to secure the eyes)

Begin by laying out the bagels on your countertop. Whether you choose mini bagels for cute, individual monsters or regular bagels for larger ones, it’s up to you! Let your kids choose between a savory base of cream cheese or mashed avocado—both spread easily onto the bagel halves.

Next, take a slice of turkey or ham and layer it inside each bagel as the “monster’s mouth.” For added fun, you can fluff it up to make it look like wild monster “tongues” hanging out.

Now it’s time to make the monster’s teeth! Cut slices of cheddar or American cheese and into jagged pieces or skinny rectangles. Help your kids tuck these cheesy “teeth” around the edge of the bagel to give each monster its own toothy grin.

Finally, it’s time to bring your monsters to life with black olives or cherry tomatoes for the eyes, securing them with toothpicks. If you want to get extra creative, try slicing olives into smaller pieces to make different-sized “pupils” or use multiple toothpicks to give your monsters more than two eyes.

Once all the pieces are in place, the monsters are ready to serve!

Encourage Creativity and Build Life Skills Early

At Shine NYC, we believe that nurturing creativity early on helps kids thrive—and cooking together is one of the best ways to explore seasonal fun while learning valuable life skills. Engaging kids in the kitchen not only sparks their imagination but also supports cognitive development, motor skills, and teamwork.

For your aspiring young chefs, explore our Kitchen Stars cooking classes. Designed for ages 3-5, 6-7, and 8-10, these hands-on classes allow kids to discover new recipes, refine their culinary talents, and gain confidence in a fun, supportive environment.  

Overcoming America’s Loneliness Epidemic: Why Good Neighbor Day Matters

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Loneliness has reached epidemic levels in the US, with 58% of adults reporting feelings of isolation. According to the CDC, social isolation can increase the risk of heart disease, stroke, and even premature death. But here’s the good news: we can all play a part in turning the tide—starting with our own neighborhoods!

National Good Neighbor Day, celebrated on September 28, is more than just a day on the calendar—it’s an opportunity for families to break out of their bubbles, meet new people, and create stronger, more connected communities. For families in the Hamptons and East End of Long Island, it’s the perfect chance to teach your kids about kindness, generosity, and the joy of giving back, all while having some local fun.

A Brief History of Good Neighbor Day

Did you know that Good Neighbor Day has been around since 1978? It was originally proposed by Becky Mattson of Lakeside, Montana, to encourage community spirit. President Jimmy Carter made it official with a proclamation, calling on Americans to engage with those who live around them. Then, in 2003, the Senate officially designated September 28 as National Good Neighbor Day, recognizing the importance of creating stronger, more connected communities. In today’s world, that mission is more relevant than ever.

Why Celebrate with Your Kids?

Teaching kids about empathy and kindness is one of the best gifts you can give. By participating in Good Neighbor Day, families can show children the importance of being good citizens—not just within their home but in the world around them. When kids experience the joy of giving, whether through a simple wave or delivering a homemade treat, they learn the value of human connection and the impact of small acts of kindness. Plus, growing up in a neighborhood where people genuinely know and care for one another helps kids feel safe, secure, and more socially confident. It’s a win-win!

Fun Ways to Celebrate Good Neighbor Day with Your Family

Here are a few simple yet meaningful ways to engage:

  1. Create colorful postcards. Get crafty with your kids! Print out this postcard template, let them color, sign, and decorate them, then deliver these little masterpieces to your neighbors. Spread some extra cheer by chalking inspiring messages on your sidewalks like “Kindness lives here!” or “You are enough!”
  2. Bake and deliver treats. What better way to connect than through food? Spend the afternoon baking cookies, cupcakes, or even a classic Irish soda bread. Have your kids help with packaging and delivering them to nearby homes. After all, sharing food is one of the most timeless gestures of kindness.
  3. Play neighborhood Bingo. Keep the excitement going with a fun challenge. Download a printable Neighborhood Bingo card where kids can check off activities like talking to a neighbor, identifying local trees, drawing maps, or spending time at a park. Once you have a “Bingo,” you can send a picture to hope@hopefulneighborhood.org to receive a prize!
  4. Try a placemaking activity. There are many unique ways to take pride in where you love—whether it’s building a city bench, creating a manhole cover t-shirt, or setting up a free library. Check out this Curbed article for inspiration.
  5. Host a neighborhood clean-up. Teach your kids about environmental stewardship by organizing a neighborhood clean-up. Families can walk around the block or visit a local park to pick up litter. Not only does this beautify the community, but it also reinforces the idea that being a good neighbor means taking care of shared spaces.
  6. Get involved in local charities. Volunteering as a family is a great way to bond and give back. Consider lending a hand at local food banks like Heart of the Hamptons in Southampton or Maureen’s Haven in Riverhead, which supports homeless individuals across the East End.
  7. Attend a kids’ night out. Want a fun night out for the kids? Check out Our Fabulous Variety Show’s a Good Neighbor Day event from 5:30-8:30 at Stella Maris Regional School in East Hampton for pizza, crafts, movies, and more.

However you choose to celebrate, National Good Neighbor Day is all about coming together as a community. Whether you’re baking treats, volunteering, or simply saying hello to a new neighbor, your efforts will go a long way in fostering a kinder, more connected neighborhood.

Looking for more fun ways to connect with local families? The Shine Studio offers workshops, camps, and classes that combine art, music, and cultural learning—perfect for ages 0-12. Come join the fun!

Embrace the Magic of Fall Foliage with East End Kids

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As the crisp autumn air settles in and the leaves begin their vibrant transformation, there’s no better time to explore the fall foliage beauty of New York’s East End with your family. Whether you’re looking for outdoor adventures, creative crafts, or cozy indoor activities, here are some ideas to make the most of the season with your children.

Explore State Parks and Scenic Drives

  • Hither Hills State Park: Located in Montauk, this park offers beautiful walking trails with ocean views and colorful fall foliage. Spend the day exploring the dunes, forest trails, playground, and open spaces with your family.
  • Mashomack Preserve: Situated on Shelter Island, this expansive nature reserve features serene trails winding through woods and marshlands. It’s an ideal spot for a peaceful family hike while enjoying the vibrant autumn colors.
  • Montauk Point Scenic Drive: Starting in East Hampton, follow Route 27 east for 30-40 minutes to Montauk Point, the easternmost tip of Long Island. You’ll pass through charming towns like Amagansett, Napeague, and Montauk before arriving at Montauk Point State Park, with plenty of opportunities to enjoy stunning fall foliage along the way. At the park, you can visit the Montauk Point Lighthouse, hike the scenic trails, and enjoy panoramic views of the Atlantic Ocean.
  • North Fork Wine Trail: Begin on Route 25 (Main Road) in Riverhead and travel 40 to 50 minutes to the easternmost tip of the North Fork in Greenport. Along the way, you’ll pass vineyards, farms, and coastal views, with plenty of stops for family-friendly farm stands and scenic autumnal overlooks. In Greenport, there are plenty of ways to spend the day—riding the antique carousel, strolling Mitchell Park’s harborfront boardwalk, exploring interactive exhibits at the Seaport Museum, taking the ferry to Shelter Island, or grabbing ice cream from Sweet Indulgences while the warm weather’s still with us.

Take a Leaf-Peeping Train Ride

  • Peconic Scenic Railroad: Located on the East End of Long Island, the Peconic Scenic Railroad offers a charming 45-minute to 1-hour train ride. This scenic journey takes you through the heart of Long Island’s wine country, with views of vineyards, farms, and picturesque landscapes. In the fall, the train ride features vibrant autumn foliage, making it a delightful experience for kids and adults. The railroad often hosts themed rides and special events during the fall, such as Halloween and harvest-themed excursions, adding extra fun to your visit. The train also features a historical museum at its Greenport station, where families can learn about the region’s railway history.
  • Adirondack Scenic Railroad: The Adirondack Scenic Railroad offers longer journeys ranging from 1.5 to 6 hours, depending on the route you choose. This railroad provides breathtaking views of the Adirondack Mountains, with rolling hills, dense forests, and beautiful lakes that showcase stunning fall colors. The train ride passes through remote wilderness areas and quaint towns, offering a peaceful and scenic escape. During the fall, the Adirondack Scenic Railroad frequently hosts special events such as “Fall Foliage Specials,” which feature guided tours and themed activities. The railroad also has a museum at the Thendara Station, where visitors can explore exhibits on local railway history and the region’s natural beauty.

Visit a Local Farm

  • Apple and Pumpkin Picking: Many farms across New York offer apple and pumpkin picking during the fall. It’s a great way to spend the day outdoors, and you can use your harvest for baking or carving.
  • Corn Mazes and Hayrides: These classic fall activities are perfect for younger kids. Explore a corn maze or take a hayride to see the vibrant landscape.

Make Fall Memories at Home

Leaf Crafts

  • Pressed Leaf Art: Collect fallen leaves in various colors and press them between heavy books. Once dried, kids can create beautiful art by arranging the leaves on paper and framing their masterpieces.
  • Leaf Rubbings: Place leaves under a sheet of paper and have your children rub crayons over the top to reveal intricate patterns. This simple activity is perfect for little ones and can be used to make seasonal cards or decorations.

Fall-Themed Books and Movies

  • Books: Enjoy storytime with fall-themed books like “Red Leaf, Yellow Leaf” by Lois Ehlert or “Leaf Man” by Lois Ehlert, which teach kids about the changing seasons and the beauty of autumn.
  • Movies: Cozy up with classics like “Winnie the Pooh: Seasons of Giving” or “It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown” to get into the fall spirit.

Activities

  • Scavenger Hunt: Design a simple scavenger hunt where kids can search for: a red leaf, yellow leaf, orange leaf, brown leaf, green leaf, multi-colored leaf, uniquely shaped leaf, leaf with holes, a big leaf, a small leaf, an acorn, pinecone, chestnut, and flower. It’s a fun way to engage children in the outdoors while teaching them about different types of trees and plants. After the activity, the kids can make a collage or shadow box with their fall treasures.
  • Leaf Chromatography Experiment: This simple hands-on science experiment helps kids understand why leaves change color in the fall. Collect a few green leaves, crush them in a glass jar, and cover them with rubbing alcohol. Let the mixture sit, then place a coffee filter strip inside the jar. The strip should be long enough to reach the liquid, but not so long it touches the bottom of the jar. Over time, the liquid will slowly move up the paper filter through capillary action, revealing hidden pigments like yellow and red. The separate bands of color on the coffee filter help kids visualize how the green chlorophyll fades and other pigments become more visible during fall.

Enjoy the Season at The Shine Studio.

Fall is a magical time, especially when experienced through the eyes of a child. Whether you’re taking a scenic drive, crafting at home, or enjoying a cozy movie night, there are countless ways to celebrate the beauty of the season with your family.

At The Shine Studio in the Hamptons, we’re always looking for new ways to encourage appreciation of nature, self-expression, and adventurous learning. Drop in for one of our classes or workshops or hire our educators to entertain a party.

5 Fun and Easy Back-to-School Art Projects

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As hot summer days wind down and the hustle of back-to-school routines begins, the transition can feel like a whirlwind of preparations and adjustments. Amid the chaos of packing backpacks and jotting down the new schedule, adding a touch of artistry allows you to flex your creative muscles, while making the return to school more satisfying for your kids.

Here are a few ideas to get you started.

Personalized Backpack

    Personalizing a backpack can be a fun way for kids to express their individuality and make their school gear truly unique. There are a variety of products available to help with this creative endeavor.

    • Iron-on patches come in countless designs, from cute animals to inspirational phrases, and can be easily applied to any fabric.
    • Fabric markers and paint pens allow kids to draw or write their own designs directly on the backpack, giving them complete creative control.
    • Keychains or luggage tags can attach to zippers or handles, featuring favorite characters, hobbies, and (for more practical purposes) your child’s name
    • Custom buttons come in a wide range of designs, from favorite characters to personalized messages. They can be pinned onto the backpack’s straps or main body and are sturdy enough to stay in place through daily use.

    Back-to-School Memory Jar

    Start a “Back-to-School Memory Jar” where your child can add notes about their daily experiences, achievements, or special moments throughout the year. Decorate the jar together with stickers and paint. This activity provides a fun way to initiate conversation, reflect on memorable events, and keep track of their progress throughout the year.

    “All About Me” Poster

    Create a first day of school poster with sections for your child to fill in with their favorite books, movies, foods, colors, animals, songs, and video games. You can also add sections for future career aspirations, height, best friends, and other fun facts. They can use stickers, drawings, and scrapbooking collage techniques to make it colorful and personal. Be sure to take a picture of your child holding the poster, so you can look back fondly on your child’s growth year after year.

    Back-to-School Countdown Calendar

    Build anticipation for the school year with a creative countdown calendar featuring flaps or pockets that reveal a fun activity or treat for the first month of school. Include simple crafts, special snacks, small books, and fidgets. This engaging calendar not only counts down the days until school starts but also adds a touch of excitement to the daily routine, making the transition back to school a more enjoyable experience.

    School Year Vision Board

    Provide a variety of magazines, colored paper, and glue sticks to help your child create a vision board that reflects their goals, dreams, and aspirations for the new school year. Encourage them to cut out images, words, and phrases that represent their ambitions, hobbies, and things they’re excited about. Add sections for personal goals, favorite subjects, or dreams for the year ahead. Include space for them to write or attach positive affirmations or motivational quotes. This vision board will not only be a visual representation of their hopes and goals but also serve as a daily source of inspiration and motivation.

    Start the School Year with Shine Educators

    Discover more creative ideas and activities at the Shine Studio in New York’s East End. Our workshops offer hands-on fun with writing, nature projects, design, and more, kickstarting a memorable school year for you and your child.

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