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Funny Business: Exploring the Benefits of Family Laughter in National Humor Month

April 26, 2023/in Celebrate, Front Page Blog, Fun, Guide, Learn, Play/by Shine

April is National Humor Month, a time when American families celebrate the importance of laughter and humor in our lives. It’s a great opportunity for kids to learn about the many different types of humor, from silly jokes to witty puns—and to explore their own sense of humor.

What is National Humor Month?

National Humor Month was founded in 1976 by author and humorist Larry Wilde, who believed that laughter is an essential part of a healthy and happy life. Wilde wanted to encourage people to take humor seriously, and to recognize the important role it plays in our mental and emotional well-being.

Ways To Celebrate National Humor Month With Your Kids

For kids, National Humor Month is a chance to let loose and have some fun. There are many different ways to celebrate this month, from telling jokes with friends and family to watching funny movies and TV shows.

This week, try some of the following:

Share funny puns—and create your own. Share funny jokes with your child and explain that puns are often funny because there are multiple meanings for words. One example of a joke like this is: “Why did the tomato turn red? Because it saw the salad dressing!” Kids can also try writing their own funny stories or skits, and performing them for friends and family. The exercise could begin with a funny situation or object, followed by a clever play on words or unexpected punchline.

Read humorous books or comics. Another great way to celebrate National Humor Month is by reading funny books. There are comedic children’s books that are sure to make kids laugh, from classic authors like Dr. Seuss to new titles like Diary of a Wimpy Kid. Kids can pen their own stories, using humor to create memorable characters and situations. Check out these funny writing prompts to get started.

Attend a performance. You can also explore different types of humor by analyzing different styles of comedy, from physical humor to satire and parody. Nearby family-friendly comedy clubs include: The Paramount in Huntington, Governors Comedy Club in Levittown and Bohemia, McGuire’s Comedy Club in Bohemia, and The Brokerage Comedy Club in Bellmore. All shows may not be family-friendly, so be sure to read the listings carefully. You might also encourage your rising star to write a comedy routine to perform for the family after dinner.

Live, Laugh, Love

National Humor Month is a great time for kids to learn about the benefits of laughter and humor. Laughter has been shown to reduce stress and anxiety, boost the immune system, and improve overall well-being. By learning to appreciate and enjoy humor, kids can develop a healthy coping mechanism for dealing with stress and difficult emotions. Knowledge about the power of laughter and humor is a life-long gift you can give your child.

Visit the Shine Studio to meet a like-minded group of people who love to laugh and learn.

8 Fun Easter Traditions from Around the World

April 3, 2023/in Celebrate, Front Page Blog, Fun, Guide, Learn, Make, Party, Play/by Shine

Easter is a holiday celebrated around the world, whether for religious reasons or simply to welcome the spring season. While you may be familiar with hiding baskets filled with chocolate and eggs or a visit from the Easter Bunny, you may not have heard about all the kite-flying, mystery-reading, and water-sprinkling happening elsewhere. Read on to learn about unique Easter traditions and consider adding a lively new activity to this year’s festivities.

1. Kite Flying

The sky over Horseshoe Bay Beach is awash with color in Bermuda, as local residents fly kites handmade at the annual Kite Festival on Good Friday. Legend has it, a local Sunday school teacher used a kite to symbolize the ascension of Jesus Christ — and it’s been a hit ever since. Today, festivalgoers participate in kite competitions, races, Easter egg hunts, and fishcake contests.

2. French Omelets

From hunts and rolling contests to dyes and breakfast, eggs are a quintessential symbol of Easter. But they take on special significance in France, where 15,000 eggs and over 300 pounds of bacon, garlic, onions, and crawfish tails go into the world’s largest omelet enjoyed by some 10,000 people. The modern tradition began in 1973, but was inspired by Napoleon’s overnight stay in the tiny southern town of Bessières where he enjoyed an omelet so much he ordered the locals to fetch every egg in the village to prepare a gigantic omelet for his entire army the next day. Today, the food is prepared by the The Giant Omelette Brotherhood of Bessières.

3. Murder Mystery Reading

There’s nothing like curling up with a good book during the chilly winter months—and don’t they know it in Norway, where there’s just six hours of daylight and average temperatures well below freezing. Crime stories, detective thrillers, and murder mysteries are their books of choice—a tradition known as Påskekrime. The tradition began in 1923, when a snippet of a murder mystery was printed on the front page of the newspaper and mistaken for fact. Today the stories are so pervasive you can even find them printed on milk cartons.

4. Costumes

Witches may be best associated with Halloween, but in Sweden and Finland, children dress up as “Easter witches” with old clothes, broomsticks, and copper kettles, going door to door and trading decorated willow branches and drawings for chocolate eggs. The tradition stems from the belief that witches head off to Blåkulla to party with the devil before Easter, so the children recite a blessing and their parents burn Easter bonfires to keep the evil away.

5. Italian Fireworks

You may think of fireworks for Independence Day or New Year’s, but Florence, Italy celebrates Scoppio del Carro, meaning “explosion of the cart,”an Easter firework display dates back to the First Crusade. In the modern-day celebration, the Archbishop of Florence lights a small coal lantern using flints once gifted to Pazzino, a crusade hero who climbed the walls of Jerusalem to raise the Christian flag. A pair of festooned oxen then travel the town pulling a three-story wagon built in 1622 loaded with fireworks. Drummers, flag throwers, and people wearing ornate 15^th century costumes parade alongside the cart. Once the procession reaches the cathedral, the Archbishop of Florence sends out a little dove rocket attached to a string mechanism to set off the grand fireworks display.

6. Luxembourg Pretzels

The third Sunday in Lent marks Bretzelsonnden, or Pretzel Sunday, where the people of Luxembourg once showed their affection with sweet puff pastries decorated in icing and almonds. Dating back to the 18^th century, a gentleman would offer the lady he fancied a pretzel on this day—and if she accepted, he visited on Easter Sunday to see if she found him sweet. If so, he received an egg in return. If not, he received an empty basket. On leap years, the girls offered pretzels to the guys. While the spring flirtation ritual has become antiquated, locals old and young still enjoy simply buying and eating their sweet frosted pretzels this time of year.

7. Bonfires

The tradition of lighting fire to chase away cold, dark winter and welcome the warmth of spring dates as far back as the ancient Egyptians. Osterfeurer has been incorporated into Easter Sunday and Monday traditions as the first major community gathering after months of Northwestern European winter — and about half the town attends! As you might expect, there’s beer and sausages, and locals also roast balls of dough over the open flames. Soon to follow are the communal fires on April 30^th, a holiday known as Walpurgisnacht in Germany, Valborg in Sweden, or Čarodejnice in the Czech Republic—which purges the land of darkness and welcomes in the new growing season.

8. Dyngus Day

After weeks of fasting and praying, Easter brings a collective sigh of relief in Polish diaspora communities across Europe and the United States (particularly the rust belt cities of Buffalo, Chicago, and Cleveland). Groups gather for food and drink, parades, live music, and polka dancing the following day on Easter Monday — also known as Śmigus-dyngus, or Dyngus Day. As per tradition, boys chase girls with branches and water guns, and girls who get soaked are believed to marry within the year. These days, pussy willows and water guns are used by everyone who partakes in the festivities.

Love learning about cultural traditions? If you live in New York City, The Hamptons, or the Tristate Area, sign up for Shine’s Globe Trekkers class to visit a new country each week to enjoy the art, music, flavors, and games.

How To Throw a Spring Color Party

March 23, 2023/in Celebrate, Front Page Blog, Fun, Guide, Learn, Make, Party, Play/by Shine

Color parties are trending hot for spring and summer birthdays and events. In fact, posts labeled #colorparty have garnered over 48 million views on TikTok. If you’ve never been to one but are looking for a unique theme for your child’s birthday, continue reading for ideas and inspiration.

Why a Color Party?

There’s nothing more refreshing than the assembly of colors after a long winter! Color parties have roots in Holi, the Hindu festival celebrating the arrival of spring and the triumph of good over evil. The main rituals involve flinging colored water and powders onto friends, family, and festivalgoers as a reenactment of a game Hindu god Lord Krishna played with his consort, goddess Radha. Borrowing a similar spirit, Color Run 5Ks are celebrated around the world, including New York’s Citi Field.

Psychologically, colors can symbolize many different ideas emotions — red for love, orange for sociability, yellow for happiness, green for money, blue for tranquility, or purple for opulence. Taken as a whole, the rainbow is the sum of its parts —a celebration of diversity, inclusivity, hope, and friendship. In some circles, rainbow colors represent God’s covenant with Noah after the Great Flood destroyed much of the world — and in others, a rainbow signifies LGBTQ+ identity and pride.

Studies show children are naturally drawn to bright, saturated colors — and that these colors can affect their moods. So for your next event, consider the crowd-pleasing color party to create memories for years to come.

How To Prepare for a Color Party

Buy the supplies. One of the easiest ways to set up your color party is to buy packets of loose, dry powder and put them into Dixie cups. Skip squeeze bottles or squirt guns, which tend to jam up. Another fun option is to use color powder cannons, which use compressed air to blast partygoers up to 20 feet away.

Put safety first. The powder itself is non-toxic, typically made of food dye and cornstarch, but it’s best if you don’t directly inhale it or get it in your eyes. So, no matter which option you choose, we recommend passing out colored bandanas and sunglasses to serve as protective gear and keep everybody safe.

Secure the venue. The ideal location for a color party is in your own backyard or on private country land with the expressed permission of the property owner. Color parties might not be welcome in public spaces due to cleanup considerations.

Have cleanup supplies on hand. If you’re doing the cleanup, you’ll want brooms and dustpans or leaf blowers to move dry powder from your sidewalk or driveway. A sprinkler, hose, or pressure washer will clean up the grass if necessary. A soapy water bucket and sponge can clean your tables and chairs. A vacuum cleaner will pick up any stray colors tracked into the house.

Send the invitations. There are several approaches to a color party. Some events have each person pick one color — and they dress from head to toe in that color and bring a matching dish to share. For the main color-tossing event, we recommend handing out white t-shirts as practical party favor keepsakes. Even though the color powders typically wash out of clothing, it’s best to forewarn guests on the invitation that the party could get messy.

Decorate. To add vibrancy, you can hang rainbow garlands in trees, hang colorful leis on each chair, tie up helium-filled balloons, set out colorful plastic tablecloths, add LED lights to mason jars as centerpieces, freeze water balloons and place them into a cooler with bottled water.

All that’s left now? Have fun!

Color Party Games and Activities

For the main event, divide your group into two teams (each with their own color), put on the high-energy tunes, and let them run wild with the goal of coating the opposing team while evading their retaliation. If you prefer, each person can have a different color and the game can be played warrior-style.

While the color war is the main event, there are many other activities:

Art: Art naturally lends itself to a rainbow of colors, so you might consider setting up a painting station or place colored confetti, construction paper, and glue on the table to see what the kids come up with — or even just simple sidewalk chalk can add to the party décor.
Color Powder Alternatives: Instead of “war,” you might set up obstacle courses the kids have to run through while others try to hit them with powder. Or you might divide into two teams, fill black balloons with two different colored powders, and play a roulette-style game where you pop a balloon over a player’s head. If it’s their team’s color, the team gets a point. If it’s the other team’s color, the team loses a point. If it’s the magic gold powder, they earn their team five points.
Wet and Wild: Bust out the sprinklers and slip-and-slides to make those colors even more saturated! And remember those frozen water balloons? Once they’ve thawed out in the hot sun and all the water’s been consumed, they’re fair game for another fun round of friendly competition. Or perhaps you organize a calmer tossing event for the chance to win a colorful prize.
Hula Hoop Contest: Hula hoops come in bright colors, so they make the perfect contest.
Scavenger Hunt: Create a list of colorful items hidden around the yard kids need to find to win a prize.
Dessert Station: A vanilla cupcake decoration station with colored sprinkles is always a hit.

Plan Your Next Event

Want help orchestrating your next party in New York City, the Hamptons, or the tristate area? Shine educators travel to your location of choice, bring themed supplies, set up decorations, entertain the kids with guided activities, and cleanup when the event’s done. No fuss, no muss — only fun! We also offer creative programming that includes summer camps, classes, field trips, and more. Contact us for details.

When dodgeball had run its course, we handed out cheap goggles to act as protective eye gear and got the color fight under way.

Happy Lunar New Year!

January 24, 2023/in Celebrate, Front Page Blog, Guide, Learn, Make, Party, Play/by Shine

Xīnnián hǎo! From China and Korea to Vietnam and Malaysia, East Asian cultures are celebrating the most significant holiday of the year as they usher in the 2023 Lunar New Year from January 22^nd through February 1^st. Goodbye, action-oriented Year of the Tiger! Hello Year of the Rabbit’s quiet contemplation and confidence! As a water year, it’s also time to go with the flow. Whether you’re Asian-American or you’d like to raise a child with cultural awareness and appreciation, Lunar New Year is a great opportunity to educate and partake in rich traditions.

What To Do for Lunar New Year

Decorate! Red is considered a lucky color to ward off evil spirits and bring positive energy into your life at the start of the New Year. Deck out your front door with red lanterns, couplets, and calligraphy.

Eat! Like any festival, Lunar New Year has its all-star lineup of signature dishes, including fish (to symbolize abundance), dumplings shaped like silver ingots (to symbolize family prosperity), glutinous rice cakes (to symbolize career advancement), sweet rice balls (to symbolize family togetherness), good fortune fruit (to symbolize fullness), spring rolls (to symbolize wealth), and longevity noodles (to symbolize happiness into old age). For tasty, easy dishes you can make at home, check out our top 5 kid-friendly Asian recipes.

Gift! Red envelopes containing money are often gifted to children and retired seniors to wish them a safe and fortunate year. According to legend, there was a demon named Sui who came out New Year’s Eve to terrorize children at night, so parents would light candles and keep the children up all night. One boy’s parents decided to wrap and re-wrap eight coins to entertain him. After the boy fell asleep, his parents placed the coins under his pillow. When Sui came near, a magical light frightened him away, as the eight coins were actually eight fairies. Parents have been gifting red envelopes of money ever since. Other popular gifts include tea, fruits, and candies.

Craft! Lunar New Year is full of vibrant imagery. With a few basic materials, you can make dragon puppets, firecrackers, paper lanterns, and rabbit greeting cards. Or try this “puzzling” twist on sensory bins.
Learn! Panda Express TV combines storybook art with an easy explanation of the holiday with “The Story of the Lunar New Year.”

Slightly older kids can see real-life celebrations in this Scholastic video. You may also consider reading one of these popular Lunar New Year books. We Teach NYC put together this comprehensive guide of activities and resources for teaching elementary-aged children about Asian culture and Lunar New Year traditions. Similarly, the Panda Express Club offers 8 free interactive lessons that explore Lunar New Year traditions through trivia, language instruction, and more. Or you can take a virtual trip to the Smithsonian National Museum of Asian Art to learn meditation, painting, mask crafting, and art interpretation.

Celebrate! Firecrackers are a popular and customary way to drive away darkness and welcome light into your life. It’s not too late to order sparklers online for the kids. Festivities may also include a nighttime lantern parade and dragon dance through the streets.

Lunar New Year 2023 Events in the East End of Long Island

While NYC’s Chinatown comes to life with dragon parades and lantern festivals, Lunar New Year celebrations can be difficult to find in these parts. But you are always welcome to bring the kids to the Shine Studio, where we combine art, storytelling, song, culinary, dance, and education in fun, engaging, age-appropriate ways. Contact us for details.

Structured vs. Unstructured Play: Which Is Better?

January 20, 2023/in Front Page Blog, Guide, Play/by Shine

Every child is born into a very important job—and that job is play. Through play, children observe, explore, experiment, and learn about the world around them. They interact with other children, pick up social cues, and work through their emotions. Play involves visual, motor, and higher-level thinking skills, while promoting creativity, imagination, and problem-solving abilities. Play is a critical part of early childhood development, but there are different types of play to be aware of—most notably structured (guided) and unstructured (free) play.

What is Unstructured Play?

Unstructured play involves open-ended activities where no instruction or rules are given. During unstructured play, the child may be playing alone, alongside others, or with others. “Let kids be kids” is often the mantra for parents and educators who feel this type of play is best. The emphasis of unstructured play is on discovery, improvisation, and self-learning. With unstructured play, there is less pressure about “getting it wrong.” While enjoying freedom, children develop self-control and learn to self-regulate.

Examples of unstructured play include:

Infant “tummy time,” where babies are placed on their bellies with toys nearby
Free play activities like block tower building, dress up, or playing with figurines
Art activities like coloring, painting, or drawing
Playing at the playground or running around in the yard
Storytelling and looking at books of interest

Among the many benefits of unstructured play:

There are no limits. Children can be as imaginative as they wish as they explore.
The open-ended nature allows kids to discover their own interests and learning style.
Children are more apt to develop independence, confidence, and resilience.
It gives kids a break from an otherwise highly structured life—and from devices.
Free play often includes physical activity, motor skills, and coordination.
Children practice decision-making, emotional regulation, and conflict resolution.

What is Structured Play?

With structured play, a caregiver, parent, or teacher is present to guide the activities. The level of adult participation varies from interaction to instruction. The emphasis is on directing kids to achieve next-level performance and skills, impart wisdom, share knowledge, or attain a goal. The best structured play is tailored to the child’s interests, abilities, and strengths to build confidence, skill, and competency.

For example:

Sports programs like swimming, soccer, dance, gymnastics, baseball, tennis, etc.
Guided art classes like crafting, pottery, or learn-to-paint
Building a LEGO set by following directions or assembling a jigsaw puzzle
Following rules to playing board games or outdoor games like “Simon Says”
Learning to cook, speak a foreign language, act, or play a musical instrument

Among the many benefits of structured play:

Children discover interests, processes, and learnings they may not find on their own.
Structured activities teach emotional regulation, turn taking, sharing, and social cues.
Kids learn new tasks and how to follow instructions step-by-step to problem-solve.
It’s a chance to practice active listening, verbal communication, and people-reading.
These activities reinforce bonds with caregivers and peers, and introduce new mentors.
Children often experience increased self-esteem and develop a sense of achievement.

Which is Better—Structured or Unstructured Play?

Not surprisingly, the answer is that kids need both types of play to thrive. According to the authors of Becoming Brilliant, Kathy Hirsh-Pasek and Roberta Michnick Golinkoff, both types of play reinforce foundational skills young children need: communication, collaboration, creativity, critical thinking, and confidence.

Reserve some time every day for your child to enjoy unstructured play time. If your child doesn’t seem interested, consider rotating new toy figurines, puzzles, blocks, dress up outfits, puppets, or sports equipment into the house—or take your child to a play center that has all these toys so you can see what he or she might be interested in. Encourage your child to play outdoors every day, regardless of the weather. Reach out to other parents for play dates at playgrounds.

As parents, we know how difficult it can be to strike a balance, yet how essential it is to our wellbeing. Sign your child up for a day or two of activities during the week to keep life interesting, but not overwhelming. Involve your children in choosing the type of activity they would like to pursue, and encourage them to “stick with it” for the duration of the session, while allowing them to say, “This isn’t for me” at the end if that’s the case. Your role is to encourage your children to explore the world—and themselves—and to use play as a release from stress and a tool to becoming a well-rounded person.

Looking for more structured play opportunities?

Join Shine this winter for structured play. “Little Luminaries” combines music, movement, art, and storytelling around themes geared toward 2-year-olds. Ages 4-7 are welcome to register for our “Creative Movement” Tuesdays. Contact us for details.

8 Thanksgiving Crafts for a Memorable Holiday

November 8, 2022/in Celebrate, Front Page Blog, Fun, Guide, Learn, Make, Party, Play/by Shine

There are so many blessings to celebrate at Thanksgiving time. With vibrant autumn colors just starting to fade, plucky turkeys waddling through farms and fields, and guests arriving at the house armed with pumpkin pies and side dish stuffing, what better time to celebrate your child’s creativity with a themed craft? Here are five of our favorite ideas to get you started.

Thanksgiving Table Turkeys – KiwiCo

If you’re expecting company, treat your guests to a special party favor: an adorable hand-sculpted turkey place setting. The body’s made of clay, with a pom-pom head, sticker beak, googly eyes, and felt toothpick feathers. Have your child write down the honored guests’ names or a special message of gratitude onto each placard.

Fall Colors Foam Weaving Placemat – Oriental Trading

Weaving is a timeless activity that’s easy enough for preschool children to learn. Simply guide the colorful foam pieces over-and-under through the pre-cut slits to create a beautiful and practical place setting for your holiday table.

Beaded Pipe Cleaner Corn – One Little Project

All you need are a few pipe cleaners and pony beads from the Dollar Store to keep little hands busy, building manual dexterity and customizing their own corncob of color. It doesn’t get much easier than this! A four-year-old can easily spend 20 minutes just picking out colors, buying you time to get your turkey in the oven.

Turkey Suncatcher Kits – Etsy

A tissue paper suncatcher always looks dazzling in the window when those first morning rays peak into the home. Your child will feel pride and joy upon gazing at the color combination he or she put together. This kit comes with sturdy black turkey cutouts, so your kids need only cut and add tissue paper with a glue stick. Help your child trim the edges for a polished finish.

Thankful Pie – Country Living

Cut a red construction paper circle as the foundation of your pie, using the inside of a paper plate as your guide. Cut half-inch tan pieces of construction paper to glue into a lattice pattern that looks like the top of the pie. Cut out a slice and have each child at the party write down someone or something they are thankful for this year. Along the top of a paper plate, write “I’m thankful for…” and secure the pie with a brass fastener, so the empty slice can rotate to reveal different messages.

Mason Jar Luminary – Create Craft Love

This craft requires a trip to the craft store for a mason jar, acrylic paint, twine, a votive candle, and a small piece of vinyl. First you’ll cut a leaf shape out of the vinyl—either by using a Cricut Explore or by tracing around an outdoor leaf—then you’ll stick it to the side of the mason jar. Paint over top of it in a festive color (like persimmon, for instance!) and wait for the acrylic to dry. Once it’s settled, peel off your vinyl leaf to leave an imprint behind. Add dried corn kernels to the bottom of the jar, wrap twine around the top, and enjoy the flickering light show.

Creatology 3D Thanksgiving Truck – Michaels

This craft kit comes with 37 wood shapes, 56 felt stickers, 52 glitter foam stickers, 16 printed felt stickers, acetate sheets, craft blue, printed paper card shapes, bamboo sticks, shredded tissue paper, adhesive gems, a brush, and double-sided tape. What more could you want? The end result is a cute centerpiece that children have as much fun playing with as they do building it.

Personalized Craft Bags – Shine

Looking for something that can keep the kids busy at your Thanksgiving party, with minimal supervision required? Shine’s customized craft bags can holiday-themed or suited to your child’s unique preferences. We’ve gotten fantastic feedback on these fabulous little bags. Check out our highlight reel here and contact us to learn more about our all-in-one fun party boxes.

Food-Free Halloween Treats the Classroom Will Love To Death

October 11, 2022/in Celebrate, Front Page Blog, Fun, Guide, Party, Play/by Shine

When we were children, our parents sent us to school with bags of Reese’s Cups, Skittles, and M&Ms. But now that more and more teal pumpkins are cropping up and 1 in 13 children has a food allergy, many schools are kindly asking that parents send in food-free holiday treats.

Move beyond party favor knick-knacks destined for the trash with these food-free Halloween treats your child’s class will find frightfully delightful:

Mini Flashlights – a useful gift that’ll come in handy trick or treating and telling spooky stories around the campfire. These even come with lanyards and batteries.

Halloween Stationary Set: Each child receives a treat bag containing a pencil, eraser, stamp, ruler bookmark, and sticker.

Halloween Sensory Squishies: Filled with non-toxic water beads, these characters are more cute than scary, but squeezing them is strangely relaxing.

Halloween Books: If you feel strongly about promoting literacy, a book always makes a thoughtful gift. For the little ones, you can get “The Night Before Halloween” or “How to Catch a Monster” for about $5 a piece. Ages 6+ might get engrossed in a Halloween activity book or bust a gut over Halloween Mad Libs, while older kids (ages 7+) might like splitting up this Goosebumps set (20/$56).

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Halloweek Rubber Duckies: All dressed up for the holidays, the class will love this twist on the classic bath and pool toy.

24-Piece Halloween Jigsaw Puzzles: Encourage patience and focus with 12 different styles of Halloween puzzle. It’s affordable enough you can throw it into a goodie bag with other treats if you please.

Halloween Wreath Craft Kits: It’s always nice when your child has fun creating, then that fun adorns the house for a month, and goes away until next year!

Halloween Monster Mini Plush: There’s nothing more endearing than a child toting around a beloved character. For a 10-year window of time, the house can never have too many plushies.

Glowing LED Ghosts: Glowing ghosts are not only fun toys to play with, but they make cute table or window decorations once the children have outgrown them.

Super Hero Cape Costumes: Dress up is highly popular for the under 10 crowd. Role playing is good for language development, emotional regulation, and self-esteem.

If you’re a teacher looking for a unique in-class activity, ask us about our custom craft bags.

Bonus Read:

Parents, be sure to check out our Guide to a Perfectly Haunting Halloween Day from Dawn ‘til Dusk for games, snacks, movies, and activities to make this holiday extra-special for your children.

How To Enjoy Christmas in July

July 18, 2022/in Celebrate, Front Page Blog, Fun, Guide, Party, Play, Taste/by Shine

July kicks off with a bang, as Independence Day fireworks explode in the night sky. Yet, if you live for celebration, it can feel like a long, uneventful stretch until Labor Day. If you missed Friendsgiving, no worries: there are still a few more weekends this month to slap together a Christmas in July.

Food

The perfect dish varies from family to family, but a potluck makes planning easy.

Appetizers invite artistry, with snowman cheese balls, fruit and cheese Christmas trees, or one of these creative Christmas wreath veggie trays.

Try to think of summer twists on your typical fare. For instance, you might bake a ham with pineapple rings and cherries on top or throw turkey legs on the grill. Serve with sides of S’mores Sweet Potatoes, Mexican street corn, and refreshing Holiday-Spiced Cranberries.

Or prefer pasta? Try this Easy Summer Grilled Lasagna, along with Christmas Salad and Christmas Tree Spinach Dip Breadsticks.

Everyone loves a traditional sugar cookie cut-out for dessert, but you might also try Hot Chocolate Icebox Pie, a Christmas Jell-o, Santa Hat Crispy Cheesecake Squares, or quick and easy Peppermint Bark.

Frills

The details bring the concept of Christmas in July to life:

Encourage attendees to dress in their favorite Christmas tees, hats, and ties. Christmas themed sunglasses or necklaces made of flashing lights and jingle bells make easy accessories for the group. Choose someone to play Santa!
Be sure to bust out all your Christmas serving trays and centerpieces.
Add Christmas inflatables, themed table cloths, tiki Santa statues, festive flamingos, strands of lights wrapped around the trees, or a lit palm tree to your décor.

Fun

There are countless ways to spice up a summer Christmas party:

Too early for Christmas music? Never! A microphone with a built-in speaker and YouTube is all you need for a Christmas karaoke party.
If you have a sandbox, you might have the kids build and decorate a “sandman” instead. Or you could fill red, white, and green water balloons for a fight. Christmas themed pinatas are always a hit with the kids, too!
Organize a “white elephant” gift exchange. Everyone picks a number out of a hat to choose a gift, with an option to steal. For a simple-yet-silly twist, have everyone wrap up a re-gift or something from their home they want to get rid of! Pick up a few items from the dollar store for the kids like a wiffle ball toss game, excavation eggs, chalk, glow-in-the-dark necklaces, or plush toys.
Play a game like Santa Cookie Elf Snowman or the 12 Games of Christmas.
Put on your favorite Christmas movie. Since the weather is much better than December, you might consider an outdoor movie experience with a projector and inflatable screen.

A Little Planning Goes a Long Way

Why wait until December to make memories that’ll last a lifetime? For more ideas on summer entertaining, contact The Shine Studio. We can bring games, crafts, and activities to entertain the kids at your next party or you can drop in for classes, workshops, and camps all summer long.

Why & How To Celebrate National Children’s Day June 12th

June 9, 2022/in Celebrate, Front Page Blog, Fun, Play/by Shine

“The days drag, but the years fly by,” according to a common parenting adage. Amid the hustle and bustle of a busy week of work, school, sports practices, dinners, and bedtime routines, it’s all too easy to lose track of how we spend our daily minutes.

In fact, 6 in 10 parents worry they aren’t spending enough “quality time” with their children, and 1 in 3 children say their parents “work too much.” While parents report feeling happiest playing games with their kids, watching tv together is the most common activity.

National Children’s Day, celebrated this year on June 12^th, reminds us to slow down our fast-paced lives, turn off technology, and focus on togetherness.

The History of National Children’s Day

Reverend Dr. Charles Leonard of Chelsea, Massachusetts first set aside this day in 1856 to hold a special baptism service and addressing problems affecting the child welfare.

Formally, different administrations have chosen different days to celebrate — the second Sunday of October (1989-2000), the first Sunday of June (2001-2016), and November 20^th (2016-present).

Because of all these changes, people choose when they want to celebrate. The second Sunday in June is truest to the original proposed date — and also the nicest weather-wise, so why not take a moment the weekend before Father’s Day to celebrate the “future changemaker” in your life?

How To Celebrate National Children’s Day

Sometimes it can be difficult to come up with a mutually satisfying activity, as kids often prefer imaginative play which adults may find boring. Here are a few ideas to get the gears turning:

Go to a park — preferably one with a playground (and pack a picnic!)
Dine out — show your child to your favorite restaurant (bonus for an outdoor patio!)
Road trip — check out one of these nearby locations within a few hours of the East End
Play board games — consider some of these expert and parent-tested classics
Make a craft — stop by the Shine studio to pick up a custom-themed craft bag
Play Hide & Go Seek, catch with a ball and frisbee, or croquet in the yard
Visit a family activity center — try roller skating, go karts, bowling, and mini golf
Organize a dance party — all you need is music, but add balloons to make it more fun!
Paint — create a family mural to make a lasting memento of your memories
Hike, bike, or swim — fresh air and activity is a nice change of pace to work and school
Stop by the Shine studio — drop in for a class, workshop, or dance session

Consider this opportunity to break from routine, explore the outdoors, share family stories, ask your child about life, and start new traditions. If you want to connect with the larger parenting community, you can share your adventures using the social media hashtag #NationalChildrensDay.

How to Help Your Kids Benefit from Boredom

May 20, 2022/in Front Page Blog, Guide, Learn, Play/by Shine

With summer break a little over a month away, you can almost hear it now: “I’m BORED.”

While the slumpy complaining and morose attitude can be frustrating to witness, all boredom is not created equal—and most types are actually good for child development.

Researchers have identified five types of tedium:

Indifferent boredom – relaxed, withdrawn, indifferent
Calibrating boredom – uncertain, receptive to change or distraction
Searching boredom – restless, active pursuit of change or distraction
Reactant boredom – motivated to leave a situation for specific alternatives
Apathetic boredom – the unpleasant feeling of helplessness or depression

Researchers say living in this Age of Information overloads our minds with information that produces a scarcity of attention and the ability to engage in productive activities. Allowing boredom provides the mind with a relaxing break that alleviates stress. Allowing the mind to wander and daydream can trigger self-reflection, development of goals, and heightened creativity. Boredom motivates the search for novelty, improved self-control, and fulfillment.

You can interpret your child’s boredom as an emotional signal that something in life needs adjusting. We’ve all been there when unstructured time that doesn’t involve screens results in squabbles, meltdowns, and wrestle fights. To attain household harmony, your child’s life needs a healthy balance between structured activity and idle time.

Here are a few ways to tweak the summer routine ever so slightly to allow boredom:

Plan together time. Sometimes “I’m bored” is really your child’s way of saying, “I need to spend more quality time with you.” Proactively schedule small chunks of together time into your day. Maybe it’s a quick post-breakfast talk and walk around the block or a half hour of board games after you finish work or Friday family movie night. A little goes a long way.

Set up surprises. After your child goes to bed, set out toys for your child to “discover” in the morning. There are probably many toys your child has forgotten about—be it a Lego set, MagnaTiles, paper dolls, puppets, puzzles, or craft supplies. Arrange a plastic animal scene, a stuffed animal tea party, or a blanket fort. Set out a bin of random open-ended play items like pipe cleaners, colored scarves, cookie cutters, costumes, or paper rolls for your child to find and consider. Buy supplies and invite your child to dig, plant, and decorate their own garden. Rotating your child’s environment with new playthings every few days keeps the days fresh and inspiring without requiring immediate oversight from you.

Make a list of boredom busters. Have your child help you brainstorm a list of what to do when the doldrums inevitably strike. Keep the list in a handy place for your child’s reference.

Make a snuggle up and snack spot. Create a quiet corner of the house with a beanbag chair, reading light, snacks, books, stuffed animals, and blankets. Let your child know whenever that feeling of boredom rises, this special spot is always waiting to take the mind on an adventure. You might consider using a sticker chart or punch card with a reward for 10 uses of this space as a way of incentivizing constructive use of boredom.

Help your child set goals. Sometimes we feel aimless when we have no hopes or dreams. Help your child pinpoint a goal to work on this summer, whether it’s achieving a new development milestone like riding a bike or tying laces, taking instrument or sports lessons, finishing a Summer Learning workbook, or learning how to draw. Setting aside time each day to work on improving a life skill can be empowering and productive.

Yes, summer boredom can be fun! If you find these steps aren’t cutting the mustard, remember you can always stop into the new Shine studio in the Hamptons for fun workshops and classes geared toward children 0-12. Contact us for schedules and details.