Loneliness has reached epidemic levels in the US, with 58% of adults reporting feelings of isolation. According to the CDC, social isolation can increase the risk of heart disease, stroke, and even premature death. But here’s the good news: we can all play a part in turning the tide—starting with our own neighborhoods!

National Good Neighbor Day, celebrated on September 28, is more than just a day on the calendar—it’s an opportunity for families to break out of their bubbles, meet new people, and create stronger, more connected communities. For families in the Hamptons and East End of Long Island, it’s the perfect chance to teach your kids about kindness, generosity, and the joy of giving back, all while having some local fun.

A Brief History of Good Neighbor Day

Did you know that Good Neighbor Day has been around since 1978? It was originally proposed by Becky Mattson of Lakeside, Montana, to encourage community spirit. President Jimmy Carter made it official with a proclamation, calling on Americans to engage with those who live around them. Then, in 2003, the Senate officially designated September 28 as National Good Neighbor Day, recognizing the importance of creating stronger, more connected communities. In today’s world, that mission is more relevant than ever.

Why Celebrate with Your Kids?

Teaching kids about empathy and kindness is one of the best gifts you can give. By participating in Good Neighbor Day, families can show children the importance of being good citizens—not just within their home but in the world around them. When kids experience the joy of giving, whether through a simple wave or delivering a homemade treat, they learn the value of human connection and the impact of small acts of kindness. Plus, growing up in a neighborhood where people genuinely know and care for one another helps kids feel safe, secure, and more socially confident. It’s a win-win!

Fun Ways to Celebrate Good Neighbor Day with Your Family

Here are a few simple yet meaningful ways to engage:

1. Create colorful postcards. Get crafty with your kids! Print out this postcard template, let them color, sign, and decorate them, then deliver these little masterpieces to your neighbors. Spread some extra cheer by chalking inspiring messages on your sidewalks like “Kindness lives here!” or “You are enough!”
2. Bake and deliver treats. What better way to connect than through food? Spend the afternoon baking cookies, cupcakes, or even a classic Irish soda bread. Have your kids help with packaging and delivering them to nearby homes. After all, sharing food is one of the most timeless gestures of kindness.
3. Play neighborhood Bingo. Keep the excitement going with a fun challenge. Download a printable Neighborhood Bingo card where kids can check off activities like talking to a neighbor, identifying local trees, drawing maps, or spending time at a park. Once you have a “Bingo,” you can send a picture to hope@hopefulneighborhood.org to receive a prize!
4. Try a placemaking activity. There are many unique ways to take pride in where you love—whether it’s building a city bench, creating a manhole cover t-shirt, or setting up a free library. Check out this Curbed article for inspiration.
5. Host a neighborhood clean-up. Teach your kids about environmental stewardship by organizing a neighborhood clean-up. Families can walk around the block or visit a local park to pick up litter. Not only does this beautify the community, but it also reinforces the idea that being a good neighbor means taking care of shared spaces.
6. Get involved in local charities. Volunteering as a family is a great way to bond and give back. Consider lending a hand at local food banks like Heart of the Hamptons in Southampton or Maureen’s Haven in Riverhead, which supports homeless individuals across the East End.
7. Attend a kids’ night out. Want a fun night out for the kids? Check out Our Fabulous Variety Show’s a Good Neighbor Day event from 5:30-8:30 at Stella Maris Regional School in East Hampton for pizza, crafts, movies, and more.

However you choose to celebrate, National Good Neighbor Day is all about coming together as a community. Whether you’re baking treats, volunteering, or simply saying hello to a new neighbor, your efforts will go a long way in fostering a kinder, more connected neighborhood.

Looking for more fun ways to connect with local families? The Shine Studio offers workshops, camps, and classes that combine art, music, and cultural learning—perfect for ages 0-12. Come join the fun!